What if it was just all for fun?

Have you ever wondered if we are dreaming or if this is really it? Sometimes I feel like this life is a huge board game and we are all pieces on the board. The difference is, we have free will so we get to tell the players (the Universe) where to move usand what actions to take.

But it really is all for fun. How do I know? Because the more fun I have, the more I get done. The more fun I have, the more money I get. The more fun I have, the more people want to be in my life. The more I have fun, the more I care. The ore I have fun. the more incredibly beautiful and powerful my body feels.

What is fun for me may be different than what is fun for you. So I can’t tell (and NOBODY can) tell you what to do, you got to choose for yourself. And if you are not sure at first, just try different things. In fact, every 10 seconds, make a choice. What are you choosing now? What about now? And what about now? And now?

Isn’t that fun? How much can you create by choosing every 10 seconds, just for fun?

How does it get any better than that?

PS: This blog uses the tools of Access Consciousness(TM). Sophie is an Access Bars Facilitator and offers sessions and classes using the tools of Access to create permanent change. If you could change anything in your life, what would you choose? Visit her website at www.SophieMihalko.com

Are you willing to ask for the money?

A few of my friends are focused around conversations about money. I like to listen in and pay attention. I love receiving money and I love receiving more and more.

I just took an advanced Access Consciousness (TM) class with founder Gary Douglas and one of the hot topics was around asking “will this person make me money?” when deciding to date or sleep with someone. Several people felt like money had nothing to do with it. But Gary explained that we made money this energy of everything. So when we are willing to ask for the money, we are willing to receive everything the universe has to deliver.

No wonder why so many people talk about money. We have made it mean everything.

Yeah, yeah I believe you when you say it’s not about how much money you make or how big your house is. I agree. But check out the energy of money. Then check out the energy of good sex. Laughter. Art. Fun. Affection. Nurturing. Acknowledgment. Doesn’t it feel like each of these energies are actually a little piece of the energy of money?

If it does not, I wonder what point of view you have about money that is preventing it from entering your life? Isn’t it a question worth asking?

Everything is energy, even money. It just so happen that we have given money such a big role that its energy encompasses all that we desire.

So are you willing to ask for the money?

How does it get any better than this?

Making Demands

In a couple of days I am leaving to take a class that could potentially change a lot of things for me.

Two days ago my body showed symptoms of the flu. I stayed in bed, drunk my fluids and had someone do some magic on me the magic took care of all the emotions attached to bring sick.

It also got me much more aware of what my body wanted. So when it asked for coke at 10 pm, I got coke.

Then a wise person asked to demand that I would be able to go to my class no matter what.

Within seconds my body took in the effects if the coke and everything else I have been giving it. It followed my orders.

I never thought making demands would feel so good!!!

Thank you Mr. D!

What’s happening to me?

I am listening to one of the recordings that started it all for me. Dr. Dain Heer on a telesumit. My body is tingling. Actually, it is electric. The electricity of the point of views and judgements I have about myself are leaving. It is quite an out of this world experience for me.

The first time I listened to Dr. Dain, I felt good inside. Now my body is recognizing his voice and doing the work without me having any kind of intention but being. I know I have been doing Access Consciousness (TM) for over 9 months now and I realize how much has moved. I am the same yet not the same. I am more caring than I ever was and I am more aware and psychic than I ever knew possible.

I have absolutely no point of view whether you need or should have what I am having. It’s your choice and I love that you are making it. This post is simply a celebration of what is possible. I am so grateful to myself for having the courage to let go of anything I knew and welcome what I did not know. I embrace it all. I may look silly and sound totally weird but nothing has ever felt more right to me.

If you are curious, check out the links above and ask me any question you have. Access is all over the world and transforming people’s lives. But don’t take my word for it!

What else is possible?

 

When taking a risk is as important as taking a breath

I felt so much tension in my body this morning I knew there was something I wanted to say that I was not saying. I had been trying to ask someone to do something with me and every time I was about to ask them the conversation turned to another topic. And I made it mean I was not supposed to ask. (I did not even ask a question about it!)

But it kept coming up so I just did it. And when they answered yes I felt so much lightness and expansion I knew this was the “right” choice.

So how many times have you stopped yourself because it was too scary? Or because it did not look “in the flow”?

What if taking a risk was the step that was required right now for you to move forward?

What if you don’t take a risk you die?

Do you have some kind of ailment that keeps coming back no matter what you do? Do you have a situation that won’t budget no matter how much thinking and efforting you have taken on? What if all that was required was to do that one thing you think is crazy or makes no sense at all?

What if you reserved a hotel in the place you want to visit so badly and then figure out how to get there? What if you asked that hot guy or hot girl out and finally get an answer? What if you borrowed money to take that class and see what you can create from there? What if you moved across country without knowing where you will land?

What if asking the question you wanted to ask would deliver everything you ever dreamt of?

How does it get any better than this?

What if funny was true?

I used to do stand up comedy. My favorite thing about it was that I could tell my true stories and make people laugh. The truer, the funnier. So when Access Consciousness tells me “The truth will make you feel lighter and a lie will make you feel heavier”, I know I have already experienced it.

I was in my shower today exploring new possibilities for my business when a giggle took over me. I first wondered what was so funny. Then I realized I was just seeing how true the new ideas were for me.

I often hear people talk about truth and feeling good as two different things. But what if it was not? What if you felt good because you knew whatever you were saying, being, or doing was true? Would that make movies and books much closer to textbooks or documentaries? Yes!!!!!

And what if every time you heard something that made you feel heavy, restricted or closing doors it was false? Wouldn’t that make the news a whole lot of BS?

You see what I mean

I bet now you can’t wait to see what makes you giggle?

How does it get any better than that?

 

My advice to Oscar nominees or how to win like Meryl Streep

I am always looking for ways to combine my two loves: filmmaking and celebration. As I am reading interviews with Oscar nominees, I thought I would give them a few tips of what it takes to pull a “Meryl Streep”. She has received 18 nominations and already won twice. Doing good work is what got them nominated, and while winning may not be the thing that would actually expand their universe even more, they are many ways they can use this opportunity to continue growing and doing what they love. 1 – Match the vibration. Now that you have entered the circle of nominated people you get to hang out with previous winners and people who have done this for a living for a long time. When you meet them, how do they be? Do they walk slowly and look at you in the eyes when they shake hands? Does the energy feel light around them? Do they walk knowing they have a true purpose in their lives? Find the one that matches what you want the best and ask for that energy to be yours. Yep, the energy will follow and no, you are not taking anything away from them. 2 – Show the world who you truly be. We are all magnificent beings. When you stand like you know it, people notice and those who do not allow themselves to recognize how brilliant they are want to thank you for giving them permission to do so. Just stand there, smile and know that who you be makes a difference. 3 – When you pick your outfit, ask if it will expand your universe. While winning is not necessary the goal of the adventure, enjoying the night and feeling like a million bucks is. If the outfit you pick does not respond with a sounding yes, don’t pick it. What would it take for you to make a stance as to how beautiful you truly be? (I put some inspiration in the photo attached). And don’t forget to ask, How does it get any better than this?

What if you were Magic?

We are now at least one month into 2012 and I can certainly feel that this year, something is shifting.

I am definitely learning all about the new paradigms and I am also incorporating them in my body and my living. But once expression keeps hanging around my head “Just for me, Just for fun” (it is something I heard in an Access Consciousness class).

When we transform and we find something yummy and delicious we want to share it with the world. I know I do.

But one reason we love Magic so much is because it is unexpected. It does not conform with the rules of this world. And when we watch Magic, we can either keep wondering “How they did it?” or simply enjoy the show.

There is no wrong answer.

Recognize you are a magician and start practicing. Or continue enjoying the show and support those that do Magic. And if you change your mind, that’s cool too!

But if you are asking yourself if you are Magic, if Magic is in you and if you can change the reality of many people, you are. There are so many ways you are magical, contact me and we will start the discussion!

What else is possible?

Day 28 through 30 – Meeting Me for the first time

I just did a 4 day class with Access Consciousness Facilitator Lisa Guisiana and it shattered any idea of what I thought the world was like and who I was for that matter.

And that is a good thing.

I just went shopping at a mall because I wanted to find clothes that reflected more who I was. And every time I picked something, I realized I was either thinking about 1 person or a group of people who would like it. I kept wondering what I wanted just for me.

Then I realized that it did not matter. It did not matter that someone else liked it or that I was buying it for them or for me. It does not matter as long as I am completely aware of it, choosing to either do it or not and that it reflects my priorities in this moment.

That was big for me. I am a new business owner and I was used to “dress for the job”, may it be as an employee, a mom, a friend, an artist. I knew what I liked in these roles. But as a business owner, I get to choose who I want to be all the time. Of course, this is why I am choosing to be a business owner but this is the first time I got it.

However, in the same stroke, the people I am looking to do business with respond more to certain ways of being. One way was make up. I don’t wear make up and don’t particularly like it. But I keep hearing how it is a way to “honor” our clients. That pi***d me off a little. I respect my clients as well without make up. Then I realized that my clients enjoy seeing someone with make up. So by wearing make up I am acknowledging them and I can do it in a way that honors myself too.

What I realized today was that who I am is a blank canevas at all times. I get to choose every 10 seconds who I choose to be in that moment and there  is never a wrong choice.

I started this 30 day challenge to see what I could create with my thoughts. The truth is I am creating whatever I am choosing in this moment. And that means I get to create again and again.

How does it get any better than this?

Day 18 through 23 – Tears, laughs and surprises

The last few days have been such a whirlwind of amazement and growth and embrace that I almost forgot to post. I didn’t really forget. I chose to do something else.

I love my blog readers and when I saw all the superb comments I got in the last few days I knew why I had felt unhinged Yesterday, I even cried as I was ready to release all the ways I was not living the blissful life that I know is mine.

If you do not know yet, on Monday I gave birth to a new baby of mine “Blissful Living with Sophie” video Summit. The launch went very well and I am enjoying the comments and the increasing number of people aware and coming to join all the fun. (if you are registering just now, no worries, we have reruns this week-end so you can catch up on the 5 amazing people I interviewed this week).

And today I spoke to my husband about all the attachment I had around the summit. I was attached to the number of people signing up, watching the videos and jumping on the amazing opportunities offered to them. I was ready to let that go. As soon as the conversation was finished, I felt lighter. I checked my email to see more people signed up and more people were taking advantage of our special offers!

I love feeling lighter

What else is possible?